Want a healthier marriage? (The following won't work for me and I'll tell you why at the end of this) But, make like a newlywed – and we’re not talking about sex. Do something for your partner that you did when you were newlyweds. Bake a batch of homemade brownies. Send flowers just because. Tuck little notes into his briefcase or leave private messages on her voice mail. Not only will you generate new emotional connections, but thinking back on your honeymoon will also help you reconnect to those warm memories.
Why it won't work for me is, (keep in mind I'll be celebrating 28 years on the 28th of this month) because she'll wonder why all of a sudden, I'm doing these things. And she'll think I'm guilty about something so therefore I must be cheating on her! Couldn't be further from the truth.
Source: Stealth Health, Reader’s Digest books